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If youโ€™ve ever typed โ€œCan I travel internationally with kids?โ€ into a search bar while staring at a globe (or a screaming toddler), youโ€™re not alone. The thought of navigating passports, time zones, and jet lag with children in tow can feel overwhelming. But hereโ€™s the truth: international travel with kids is absolutely possibleโ€”and honestly, it can be incredible.

Iโ€™m Marquita, a mom of twin boys who took their first international trip when they were just six months old. Since then, weโ€™ve explored 10 countries together, from the beaches of Aruba to the temples of Thailand and even the mountains of Peru. Iโ€™ve flown solo, navigated customs questions, survived jet lag, and figured out how to travel smarter, not just harder.

In this post, Iโ€™ll break down everything you need to know to confidently answer the question, โ€œCan I travel internationally with my kids?โ€ Weโ€™ll cover what documents you need, whether you need special permission to travel solo, how to choose the right destination, what gear makes life easier, and how to keep everyone (including yourself) sane at 35,000 feet.

Letโ€™s get into itโ€”because motherhood doesnโ€™t have to mean missing out on the world.

Can You Travel Internationally With a Baby or Toddler?

Yes, you absolutely can. Airlines typically allow infants to fly internationally as early as 2 weeks old, though some recommend waiting until your baby is at least 6 to 8 weeks, especially for long-haul flights. In my case, I took my twin boys on their first international trip at just six months oldโ€”Paris and Amsterdam.

But hereโ€™s what I learned quickly: not all cities are created equal when youโ€™re pushing a double stroller. Paris was beautiful, but with its narrow sidewalks, stairs, and tricky metro access, it wasnโ€™t the easiest to navigate. Getting in and out of Ubers or taxis with two babies and a bulky stroller was frustrating at best.

In contrast, Amsterdam was a dream. Their trams were stroller-friendly, sidewalks were wide and flat, and the city was built for walking. That experience taught me that choosing the right destination isnโ€™t just about what you want to seeโ€”itโ€™s about what makes your life easier when youโ€™re on the move with kids.

Do You Need a Notarized Letter to Travel With Kids?

Mom holding twin 6 month boys in front of the Eiffel tower in Paris

This is one of the most common questions parents ask, for good reason. If youโ€™re traveling internationally with your child without the other parent, you may be asked to show proof that you have permission to do so.

Some countries and airlines require a notarized letter of consent from the non-traveling parent. Iโ€™ve traveled internationally without my husband, like when I flew with our twins to Amsterdam and Paris with just his aunt, and I wasnโ€™t asked for documentation. But Iโ€™ve heard enough stories to know that not everyone gets waved through that easily.

My advice? Be prepared. A notarized letter isnโ€™t always required, but having one can save you major stress. It should include:

  • Childโ€™s full name and date of birth
  • Traveling parentsโ€™ names and passport info
  • Non-traveling parentโ€™s name and consent
  • Dates and destinations
  • Notarization

What Documents Are Required for International Travel With Kids?

Twin baby boys laying on a grey blanket with a 6 month birthday sign and their passports

Required Paperwork Checklist
Hereโ€™s what you absolutely need for every international trip with kids:

A valid passport for every travelerโ€”including infants and toddlers. There are no exceptions. Babies need their own passports to leave and re-enter the U.S.
๐Ÿ‘‰ Click here for official passport requirements for children under 16 ๐Ÿ‘ˆ
Note: Both parents (or legal guardians) must appear in person to apply for a childโ€™s passport and sign the application. If one parent canโ€™t be there, youโ€™ll need additional legal documentation to proceed.

Your valid passport as the traveling parent or legal guardian. In my experience, Iโ€™ve never been asked for a driverโ€™s licenseโ€”just my passportโ€”so donโ€™t stress about carrying multiple forms of ID for international border checks.

Notarized letter of consent, if traveling without the other parent (see the previous section for details).

Visas, if your destination country requires them for U.S. citizens.
๐Ÿ‘‰ Use this official tool to check visa requirements by country ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Return or onward ticket, depending on your destination (some countries ask for proof that youโ€™re not staying indefinitely).

Vaccination records, if applicable. Some countries require proof of certain vaccinations, like yellow fever.

Pro Tip: Make both digital and paper copies of each document. I keep them organized in a travel folder and store digital backups in my email and cloud driveโ€”just in case.

Choosing the Right Destination for International Family Travel

Where you go sets the tone for everything elseโ€”how you pack, how you fly, and how easy (or difficult) your days will be. And when youโ€™re traveling with kids, picking the right destination can make or break your experience.

Match the Location to Your Childโ€™s Age

My twin boys, 4 years old, taking a break from hiking at Machu Picchu.

One of the biggest lessons Iโ€™ve learned after traveling to 10 countries with my boys, starting when they were just six months old, is that the destination has to match the season of parenting youโ€™re in.

Infant stage: When we took our first big international trip, the boys were six months old. We chose Amsterdam and Paris. Amsterdam was a breeze- wide sidewalks, stroller-friendly trams, and a walkable layout made it easy to get around with a double stroller. Paris, on the other hand? Beautiful, yes. But narrow sidewalks, busy roads, and stair-heavy metro stations made it a logistical nightmare. I spent way too much time struggling to fold strollers and haul babies in and out of taxis.

Toddler stage: By the time the boys were around 13 months, we went to Thailand. This time, we came preparedโ€”we brought compact GB Pockit strollers instead of the bulky double stroller and hired a private driver. Total game-changer. In a city like Bangkok, where crowds and traffic are intense, having a personal driver made transitions smoother and safer, and it meant the car seats were already installed and ready to go.

Preschoolers and up: As the boys got older, we started pushing the boundaries a bit. At age four, they hiked part of Machu Picchu with us in Peru. That might sound intense, but because we were already an active family (lots of neighborhood walks and light hikes), they were ready for it. With older kids, you can lean into adventure more, especially if you ease into it gradually.

The takeaway? Choose a place that complements your childโ€™s mobility, temperament, and stamina, not just your bucket list. Youโ€™ll have a lot more fun when your destination works with your kids, not against them.

Below are some of my favorite international destinations with my kids:

When to Get a Local Guide

If youโ€™re visiting a destination where logistics are tricky or the language barrier might be an issue, hire a local private guide. I canโ€™t stress this enough.

In Brazil, and Colombia, we used private guides, and they were lifesavers. They helped carry bags, interacted with the boys, kept us on schedule, and added so much cultural context to our days. My kids still remember our guides by nameโ€”and not just because they helped entertain them, but because they became part of the experience.

Even better, guides often come with their own vehicle, so you can leave your gear in the car and avoid hauling everything around all day.

If your budget allows, a private guide is one of the best investments you can make when traveling internationally with kids, especially in places that arenโ€™t stroller-friendly or require a lot of transportation between sites.

How to Handle Car Seats When Traveling Abroad

WAYB Pico Car Seat in hand of mom at the airport

Know the Laws Where Youโ€™re Going

Before you fly, check the car seat laws in your destination country. Some places have strict requirements; others are surprisingly relaxed. But just because a country doesnโ€™t require a car seat doesnโ€™t mean you shouldnโ€™t use one.

When my twins were still in infant and convertible car seats, I always brought our own. As they got older and transitioned to booster seats, I started renting them more often. Still, Iโ€™m very specific when renting. I always call ahead to confirm the exact type of car seat, not just check a box online.

๐Ÿ‘‰ If youโ€™re still debating, check out my
CARES Harness vs. Car Seat for Flying with Kids ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Tips for Flying Internationally With Kids

Once your destination is set and documents are ready, itโ€™s time to tackle the flight itself. And letโ€™s be realโ€”this is the part that stresses most parents out. Long-haul flights, time changes, restless toddlersโ€ฆitโ€™s a lot. But after more than a dozen international trips with my twins, Iโ€™ve got a system that works.

Booking Flights and Seats

Family of 5 on a flight to Thailand. Mom and dad are sitting on one side of the aisle- holding one twin, while auntie is on the other side holding the other twin. Both twins are drinking a bottle

One of the biggest decisions is whether to book your child their own seat or keep them as a lap child (allowed under age two on most airlines). That might sound budget-friendly, but let me tell youโ€”holding a baby for 8+ hours is no joke.

When my twins were under two, we often bought one seat and registered the other as a lap child. To make this work, weโ€™d book the back row in the middle section (usually five seats across) and try to leave one middle seat empty between us. That way, if the flight wasnโ€™t full, we had extra space without paying for two full seats.

Pro tip: Most people wonโ€™t pick a single seat surrounded by a family with toddlers.

If your child is old enough or you can swing the cost, having their own seat is absolutely worth it, especially for overnight flights.

Bulkhead seats with bassinets are a lifesaver for infants. Youโ€™ll need to call the airline to request it (you canโ€™t book it online), but itโ€™s worth the effort. Most airline bassinets have a weight limit of 20โ€“25 pounds, so be sure to check with your airline in advance to confirm availability and exact requirements.

Getting Through the Airport

Youโ€™ll want to think through every step of the airport process, especially when you have gear.

When we flew to Paris with a bulky double stroller, it was a logistical nightmare. Narrow walkways, stairs, and train stations werenโ€™t made for something that size. Even though it wasnโ€™t a side-by-side stroller, it was still too cumbersome for a city with limited space and lots of public transit. By the time we reached our hotel, I was exhaustedโ€”and not from jet lag.

In contrast, when we went to Bangkok, we brought our GB Pockit strollersโ€”compact, lightweight, and easy to fold with one hand. It made airport navigation and city touring so much easier.

Hereโ€™s what helps at the airport:

  • Arrive early, especially if traveling with babies or checking car seats
  • Use curbside check-in if itโ€™s available (fewer lines!)
  • Use a compact travel stroller that fits in the overhead bin. This lets you roll your child right onto the plane, as well as avoiding the need to wait at the gate for a stroller to be returned.

In-Flight Survival Guide

young toddler walking down the aisle of a plane

Now for the flight itself: your goal is to keep your kids entertained, fed, and ideallyโ€ฆasleep. Getting my kids to sleep on a long-haul flight is so important to me that I wrote a full blog post on it.

Our favorite travel item by far is the JetKids Bed Box. It turns the airplane seat into a flat bed, perfect for long-haul flights. When my boys can lie down and sleep for a solid block of time, everyone has a better flight.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Review my complete guide to the best airplane bed
to decide which one is best for your family ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Other must-haves:

  • A small โ€œactivity bagโ€ for each child with stickers, snacks, crayons, and a tablet with headphones.
  • A change of clothes (for you and your kidโ€”trust me).
  • Snacks, snacks, and more snacks. Airline food isnโ€™t kid-proof.
  • Wipes and hand sanitizer on deck at all times.

And for jet lag? I try to keep us awake during daylight hours once we land, even if that means a midday nap to bridge the gap. A little sun exposure and movement help everyone adjust faster. If weโ€™re on a longer trip, I sometimes start shifting their bedtime back toward home time a day or two before we return.

Bonus Tip: Make re-entry to the U.S. easier

Global Entry acceptance letter


If youโ€™re considering Global Entry, do it. While each child still needs their own application, they donโ€™t have to pay the fee if a parent is applying or already has Global Entry. You can apply together as a family, and once approved, it can save you hours when returning to the U.S. Global Entry also includes TSA PreCheck, which means shorter lines, no removing shoes, and a faster security processโ€”especially helpful when youโ€™re juggling kids and carry-ons.

If Global Entry is not in the budget, Mobile Passport is a free app on your phone and can be used at 50+ airports and ports for expedited customs.

Is It Worth Traveling Abroad With Children?

Letโ€™s be honestโ€”traveling internationally with kids isnโ€™t always easy. There are nap schedules, meltdowns, and moments where you wonder if it wouldโ€™ve just been better to stay home. But is it worth it?

Absolutely.

Why Itโ€™s Not as Hard as You Think

When I first took my twins abroad at six months old, I had no idea what to expect. But that tripโ€”and every one sinceโ€”showed me that kids are incredibly adaptable. They donโ€™t need luxury. They donโ€™t need perfectly planned itineraries. They need love, attention, and space to explore. And travel offers all of that.

Over the years, weโ€™ve visited 10 countries. Weโ€™ve lounged on beaches in the Caribbean, squeezed onto crowded trams in Europe, and even hiked up to Machu Picchu when the boys were just four years old. It sounds ambitious, but we got there by building confidence over time. One successful trip gave us the courage to try another.

When you start early, your kids learn how to be travelers. They learn how to wait in line, adapt to new environments, and sleep in different time zones. They become flexible. And letโ€™s be realโ€”so do you.

Benefits Beyond the Vacation

Yes, there are tantrums and tough moments. But the memories? They last.

Traveling together has given us:

  • Core memoriesโ€”my boys still talk about the guides we had in Rio and Colombia
  • Bonding timeโ€”no distractions, just us figuring things out together
  • Life skillsโ€”theyโ€™ve learned how to be patient, try new foods, and engage with different cultures

And the best part? They love it. They donโ€™t see travel as something scary or overwhelmingโ€”they see it as an adventure. And I love that Iโ€™ve been able to give them that mindset so early in life.

Final Tips for International Travel With Kids

Twin 4 year old boys looking at a llama at Machu Picchu

By now youโ€™ve got the big pieces coveredโ€”documents, flights, destinationsโ€”but sometimes itโ€™s the little things that make the biggest difference. Here are the final, mom-tested tips that help me survive (and actually enjoy) international trips with my kids:

Pack light. I know itโ€™s tempting to bring everything โ€œjust in case,โ€ but trust meโ€”less is more. Especially if youโ€™ll be hopping on trains or using public transportation. You can buy diapers and wipes abroad. What I always bring from home: formula and any specific medications my kids might need.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Need more details on what to bring and how to travel light? ๐Ÿ‘ˆ
Kid Travel Essentials Checklist
Minimalist Packing List

Donโ€™t overschedule. One to two activities a day is plenty. Leave room for naps, snacks, and those unplanned moments that end up being the most memorable. Over-scheduling leads to overtired kids and stressed-out parents.

Adjust sleep slowly. On arrival, get outside, keep them awake during daylight, and aim for a full nightโ€™s sleep to reset. If your trip is longer, start shifting bedtimes closer to your home schedule a couple of days before you return.

Embrace flexibility. Sometimes a tantrum means skipping the museum and finding a gelato shop instead. Thatโ€™s okay. Travel with kids doesnโ€™t have to be perfect to be meaningful.

You donโ€™t have to do it all alone. Hire a private guide, book a driver, or ask for help. Especially if youโ€™re traveling solo, those extra hands make a big differenceโ€”and sometimes become the most special part of the trip.

Start small. You donโ€™t have to jet off to Europe or Asia on your very first trip. Your first international experience can be somewhere closer, like Mexico or Canada, just to get your feet wet and get a feel for the process. Thatโ€™s exactly what we did. We took a trip to Puerto Rico (not technically international, but a totally different travel rhythm) about a month before flying to Paris and Amsterdam. It gave us a chance to practice traveling as a family without the full pressure of customs and long-haul flights.

Conclusion

So, can you travel internationally with kids?

Absolutely. You donโ€™t need to be a supermom. You donโ€™t need to have it all figured out. You just need to prepare, stay flexible, and trust that it can be doneโ€”because Iโ€™ve done it, many times, starting when my boys were just six months old.

From choosing the right destination to packing light, navigating airport lines, and handling jet lag like a pro, international family travel is more doable than most parents think. Yes, it takes more planning. But the memories youโ€™ll make? The confidence your kids will gain? The sense of adventure theyโ€™ll carry for life? Itโ€™s worth it. Every time.

And if youโ€™re standing at the edge of that decisionโ€”wondering if now is the time to take the leapโ€”Iโ€™ll be the one cheering you on from the boarding gate.

Youโ€™ve got this.

What I wore to Petra, Jordan- a green midi dress

About Author

Hi! I'm Marquita, The Traveling Twin Mama ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ

As a family and solo female travel expert, Iโ€™ve explored over 40 countries, including about half of the Caribbean and all 7 New World Wonders. Since my twin boys were born, they have taken more than 50 trips and visited 10 countries with their first flight being at just 4 months old. Through my experiences, I empower women to travel the world confidently, whether they're with their family, friends, or on their own.

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