If youโve ever typed โCan I travel internationally with kids?โ into a search bar while staring at a globe (or a screaming toddler), youโre not alone. The thought of navigating passports, time zones, and jet lag with children in tow can feel overwhelming. But hereโs the truth: international travel with kids is absolutely possibleโand honestly, it can be incredible.
Iโm Marquita, a mom of twin boys who took their first international trip when they were just six months old. Since then, weโve explored 10 countries together, from the beaches of Aruba to the temples of Thailand and even the mountains of Peru. Iโve flown solo, navigated customs questions, survived jet lag, and figured out how to travel smarter, not just harder.
In this post, Iโll break down everything you need to know to confidently answer the question, โCan I travel internationally with my kids?โ Weโll cover what documents you need, whether you need special permission to travel solo, how to choose the right destination, what gear makes life easier, and how to keep everyone (including yourself) sane at 35,000 feet.
Letโs get into itโbecause motherhood doesnโt have to mean missing out on the world.
Is It Legal to Travel Internationally With Kids?


Traveling internationally with kids is not only legalโitโs more common than you might think. But the laws, requirements, and practicalities can vary depending on your childโs age, your destination, and whether youโre traveling solo or with the other parent.
Can You Travel Internationally With a Baby or Toddler?
Yes, you absolutely can. Airlines typically allow infants to fly internationally as early as 2 weeks old, though some recommend waiting until your baby is at least 6 to 8 weeks, especially for long-haul flights. In my case, I took my twin boys on their first international trip at just six months oldโParis and Amsterdam.
But hereโs what I learned quickly: not all cities are created equal when youโre pushing a double stroller. Paris was beautiful, but with its narrow sidewalks, stairs, and tricky metro access, it wasnโt the easiest to navigate. Getting in and out of Ubers or taxis with two babies and a bulky stroller was frustrating at best.
In contrast, Amsterdam was a dream. Their trams were stroller-friendly, sidewalks were wide and flat, and the city was built for walking. That experience taught me that choosing the right destination isnโt just about what you want to seeโitโs about what makes your life easier when youโre on the move with kids.
Do You Need a Notarized Letter to Travel With Kids?

This is one of the most common questions parents ask, for good reason. If youโre traveling internationally with your child without the other parent, you may be asked to show proof that you have permission to do so.
Some countries and airlines require a notarized letter of consent from the non-traveling parent. Iโve traveled internationally without my husband, like when I flew with our twins to Amsterdam and Paris with just his aunt, and I wasnโt asked for documentation. But Iโve heard enough stories to know that not everyone gets waved through that easily.
My advice? Be prepared. A notarized letter isnโt always required, but having one can save you major stress. It should include:
- Childโs full name and date of birth
- Traveling parentsโ names and passport info
- Non-traveling parentโs name and consent
- Dates and destinations
- Notarization
What Documents Are Required for International Travel With Kids?

Required Paperwork Checklist
Hereโs what you absolutely need for every international trip with kids:
A valid passport for every travelerโincluding infants and toddlers. There are no exceptions. Babies need their own passports to leave and re-enter the U.S.
๐ Click here for official passport requirements for children under 16 ๐
Note: Both parents (or legal guardians) must appear in person to apply for a childโs passport and sign the application. If one parent canโt be there, youโll need additional legal documentation to proceed.
Your valid passport as the traveling parent or legal guardian. In my experience, Iโve never been asked for a driverโs licenseโjust my passportโso donโt stress about carrying multiple forms of ID for international border checks.
Notarized letter of consent, if traveling without the other parent (see the previous section for details).
Visas, if your destination country requires them for U.S. citizens.
๐ Use this official tool to check visa requirements by country ๐
Return or onward ticket, depending on your destination (some countries ask for proof that youโre not staying indefinitely).
Vaccination records, if applicable. Some countries require proof of certain vaccinations, like yellow fever.
Pro Tip: Make both digital and paper copies of each document. I keep them organized in a travel folder and store digital backups in my email and cloud driveโjust in case.
Choosing the Right Destination for International Family Travel



Where you go sets the tone for everything elseโhow you pack, how you fly, and how easy (or difficult) your days will be. And when youโre traveling with kids, picking the right destination can make or break your experience.
Match the Location to Your Childโs Age

One of the biggest lessons Iโve learned after traveling to 10 countries with my boys, starting when they were just six months old, is that the destination has to match the season of parenting youโre in.
Infant stage: When we took our first big international trip, the boys were six months old. We chose Amsterdam and Paris. Amsterdam was a breeze- wide sidewalks, stroller-friendly trams, and a walkable layout made it easy to get around with a double stroller. Paris, on the other hand? Beautiful, yes. But narrow sidewalks, busy roads, and stair-heavy metro stations made it a logistical nightmare. I spent way too much time struggling to fold strollers and haul babies in and out of taxis.
Toddler stage: By the time the boys were around 13 months, we went to Thailand. This time, we came preparedโwe brought compact GB Pockit strollers instead of the bulky double stroller and hired a private driver. Total game-changer. In a city like Bangkok, where crowds and traffic are intense, having a personal driver made transitions smoother and safer, and it meant the car seats were already installed and ready to go.
Preschoolers and up: As the boys got older, we started pushing the boundaries a bit. At age four, they hiked part of Machu Picchu with us in Peru. That might sound intense, but because we were already an active family (lots of neighborhood walks and light hikes), they were ready for it. With older kids, you can lean into adventure more, especially if you ease into it gradually.
The takeaway? Choose a place that complements your childโs mobility, temperament, and stamina, not just your bucket list. Youโll have a lot more fun when your destination works with your kids, not against them.
Below are some of my favorite international destinations with my kids:
When to Get a Local Guide



If youโre visiting a destination where logistics are tricky or the language barrier might be an issue, hire a local private guide. I canโt stress this enough.
In Brazil, and Colombia, we used private guides, and they were lifesavers. They helped carry bags, interacted with the boys, kept us on schedule, and added so much cultural context to our days. My kids still remember our guides by nameโand not just because they helped entertain them, but because they became part of the experience.
Even better, guides often come with their own vehicle, so you can leave your gear in the car and avoid hauling everything around all day.
If your budget allows, a private guide is one of the best investments you can make when traveling internationally with kids, especially in places that arenโt stroller-friendly or require a lot of transportation between sites.
How to Handle Car Seats When Traveling Abroad

Know the Laws Where Youโre Going
Before you fly, check the car seat laws in your destination country. Some places have strict requirements; others are surprisingly relaxed. But just because a country doesnโt require a car seat doesnโt mean you shouldnโt use one.
When my twins were still in infant and convertible car seats, I always brought our own. As they got older and transitioned to booster seats, I started renting them more often. Still, Iโm very specific when renting. I always call ahead to confirm the exact type of car seat, not just check a box online.
๐ If youโre still debating, check out my
CARES Harness vs. Car Seat for Flying with Kids ๐
Tips for Flying Internationally With Kids



Once your destination is set and documents are ready, itโs time to tackle the flight itself. And letโs be realโthis is the part that stresses most parents out. Long-haul flights, time changes, restless toddlersโฆitโs a lot. But after more than a dozen international trips with my twins, Iโve got a system that works.
Booking Flights and Seats

One of the biggest decisions is whether to book your child their own seat or keep them as a lap child (allowed under age two on most airlines). That might sound budget-friendly, but let me tell youโholding a baby for 8+ hours is no joke.
When my twins were under two, we often bought one seat and registered the other as a lap child. To make this work, weโd book the back row in the middle section (usually five seats across) and try to leave one middle seat empty between us. That way, if the flight wasnโt full, we had extra space without paying for two full seats.
Pro tip: Most people wonโt pick a single seat surrounded by a family with toddlers.
If your child is old enough or you can swing the cost, having their own seat is absolutely worth it, especially for overnight flights.
Bulkhead seats with bassinets are a lifesaver for infants. Youโll need to call the airline to request it (you canโt book it online), but itโs worth the effort. Most airline bassinets have a weight limit of 20โ25 pounds, so be sure to check with your airline in advance to confirm availability and exact requirements.
Getting Through the Airport



Youโll want to think through every step of the airport process, especially when you have gear.
When we flew to Paris with a bulky double stroller, it was a logistical nightmare. Narrow walkways, stairs, and train stations werenโt made for something that size. Even though it wasnโt a side-by-side stroller, it was still too cumbersome for a city with limited space and lots of public transit. By the time we reached our hotel, I was exhaustedโand not from jet lag.
In contrast, when we went to Bangkok, we brought our GB Pockit strollersโcompact, lightweight, and easy to fold with one hand. It made airport navigation and city touring so much easier.
Hereโs what helps at the airport:
- Arrive early, especially if traveling with babies or checking car seats
- Use curbside check-in if itโs available (fewer lines!)
- Use a compact travel stroller that fits in the overhead bin. This lets you roll your child right onto the plane, as well as avoiding the need to wait at the gate for a stroller to be returned.
In-Flight Survival Guide

Now for the flight itself: your goal is to keep your kids entertained, fed, and ideallyโฆasleep. Getting my kids to sleep on a long-haul flight is so important to me that I wrote a full blog post on it.
Our favorite travel item by far is the JetKids Bed Box. It turns the airplane seat into a flat bed, perfect for long-haul flights. When my boys can lie down and sleep for a solid block of time, everyone has a better flight.
๐ Review my complete guide to the best airplane bed
to decide which one is best for your family ๐
Other must-haves:
- A small โactivity bagโ for each child with stickers, snacks, crayons, and a tablet with headphones.
- A change of clothes (for you and your kidโtrust me).
- Snacks, snacks, and more snacks. Airline food isnโt kid-proof.
- Wipes and hand sanitizer on deck at all times.
And for jet lag? I try to keep us awake during daylight hours once we land, even if that means a midday nap to bridge the gap. A little sun exposure and movement help everyone adjust faster. If weโre on a longer trip, I sometimes start shifting their bedtime back toward home time a day or two before we return.
๐ More travel-tested tools ๐
Best Airplane Beds
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Bonus Tip: Make re-entry to the U.S. easier

If youโre considering Global Entry, do it. While each child still needs their own application, they donโt have to pay the fee if a parent is applying or already has Global Entry. You can apply together as a family, and once approved, it can save you hours when returning to the U.S. Global Entry also includes TSA PreCheck, which means shorter lines, no removing shoes, and a faster security processโespecially helpful when youโre juggling kids and carry-ons.
If Global Entry is not in the budget, Mobile Passport is a free app on your phone and can be used at 50+ airports and ports for expedited customs.
Is It Worth Traveling Abroad With Children?



Letโs be honestโtraveling internationally with kids isnโt always easy. There are nap schedules, meltdowns, and moments where you wonder if it wouldโve just been better to stay home. But is it worth it?
Absolutely.
Why Itโs Not as Hard as You Think
When I first took my twins abroad at six months old, I had no idea what to expect. But that tripโand every one sinceโshowed me that kids are incredibly adaptable. They donโt need luxury. They donโt need perfectly planned itineraries. They need love, attention, and space to explore. And travel offers all of that.
Over the years, weโve visited 10 countries. Weโve lounged on beaches in the Caribbean, squeezed onto crowded trams in Europe, and even hiked up to Machu Picchu when the boys were just four years old. It sounds ambitious, but we got there by building confidence over time. One successful trip gave us the courage to try another.
When you start early, your kids learn how to be travelers. They learn how to wait in line, adapt to new environments, and sleep in different time zones. They become flexible. And letโs be realโso do you.
Benefits Beyond the Vacation
Yes, there are tantrums and tough moments. But the memories? They last.
Traveling together has given us:
- Core memoriesโmy boys still talk about the guides we had in Rio and Colombia
- Bonding timeโno distractions, just us figuring things out together
- Life skillsโtheyโve learned how to be patient, try new foods, and engage with different cultures
And the best part? They love it. They donโt see travel as something scary or overwhelmingโthey see it as an adventure. And I love that Iโve been able to give them that mindset so early in life.
Final Tips for International Travel With Kids

By now youโve got the big pieces coveredโdocuments, flights, destinationsโbut sometimes itโs the little things that make the biggest difference. Here are the final, mom-tested tips that help me survive (and actually enjoy) international trips with my kids:
Pack light. I know itโs tempting to bring everything โjust in case,โ but trust meโless is more. Especially if youโll be hopping on trains or using public transportation. You can buy diapers and wipes abroad. What I always bring from home: formula and any specific medications my kids might need.
๐ Need more details on what to bring and how to travel light? ๐
Kid Travel Essentials Checklist
Minimalist Packing List
Donโt overschedule. One to two activities a day is plenty. Leave room for naps, snacks, and those unplanned moments that end up being the most memorable. Over-scheduling leads to overtired kids and stressed-out parents.
Adjust sleep slowly. On arrival, get outside, keep them awake during daylight, and aim for a full nightโs sleep to reset. If your trip is longer, start shifting bedtimes closer to your home schedule a couple of days before you return.
Embrace flexibility. Sometimes a tantrum means skipping the museum and finding a gelato shop instead. Thatโs okay. Travel with kids doesnโt have to be perfect to be meaningful.
You donโt have to do it all alone. Hire a private guide, book a driver, or ask for help. Especially if youโre traveling solo, those extra hands make a big differenceโand sometimes become the most special part of the trip.
Start small. You donโt have to jet off to Europe or Asia on your very first trip. Your first international experience can be somewhere closer, like Mexico or Canada, just to get your feet wet and get a feel for the process. Thatโs exactly what we did. We took a trip to Puerto Rico (not technically international, but a totally different travel rhythm) about a month before flying to Paris and Amsterdam. It gave us a chance to practice traveling as a family without the full pressure of customs and long-haul flights.
Conclusion



So, can you travel internationally with kids?
Absolutely. You donโt need to be a supermom. You donโt need to have it all figured out. You just need to prepare, stay flexible, and trust that it can be doneโbecause Iโve done it, many times, starting when my boys were just six months old.
From choosing the right destination to packing light, navigating airport lines, and handling jet lag like a pro, international family travel is more doable than most parents think. Yes, it takes more planning. But the memories youโll make? The confidence your kids will gain? The sense of adventure theyโll carry for life? Itโs worth it. Every time.
And if youโre standing at the edge of that decisionโwondering if now is the time to take the leapโIโll be the one cheering you on from the boarding gate.
Youโve got this.
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